tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post7687695656965678595..comments2023-08-20T05:41:52.065-04:00Comments on A Long Day`s Journey....: This was about grilling but got depressing real quickHeidihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10723233261109297287noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post-91202527475322894882012-03-18T02:09:14.130-04:002012-03-18T02:09:14.130-04:00Sometimes, life really sucks, I get that, I've...Sometimes, life really sucks, I get that, I've been there, trust me, I have been there. :(<br /><br />Take care of you and the rest will fall in line.dalesdreamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02304656921813405064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post-20395496511972943582012-03-18T00:42:02.241-04:002012-03-18T00:42:02.241-04:00I guarantee that Meissa's right about your fam...I guarantee that Meissa's right about your family being lucky to have you.Tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14202584414861247702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post-60953856740430874952012-03-18T00:20:31.741-04:002012-03-18T00:20:31.741-04:00Major hugs to you M. You need to spill your guts. ...Major hugs to you M. You need to spill your guts. Holding that shit in is not good. Life will get better for you and Shep. I can feel it! I am just tired of being positive about my situation and life. Too much has happened and I am too tired to smile through it.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10723233261109297287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post-18885050363926788132012-03-17T23:50:28.133-04:002012-03-17T23:50:28.133-04:00Heidi, you don't have to explain your sad or h...Heidi, you don't have to explain your sad or happy posts. OMG, now that Shep's unemployed, and I'm the one working a job where I make half of what he made, and literally breaking my back, is depressing. I feel like I want to cry every day ever since he got laid off. <br /><br />Just know that what you do is worth so much. I'd give anything to have one of your home cooked meals or be the recipient of any of the motherly things you do. Reminds me of my mom who I miss so much. Your family is so lucky to have you, and I am sure they feel lucky, even though sometimes it may feel like they take you for granted.<br /><br />I love you too Heidi. Take care of yourself.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07313440561570892961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post-29643347322704618682012-03-17T19:58:56.070-04:002012-03-17T19:58:56.070-04:00I played Slingo, got in bed around 2pm and Fred wo...I played Slingo, got in bed around 2pm and Fred woke me up at 7pm. He and Nat made dinner.<br />Thanks G. I am very good at putting that mask on but lately it hasn't been working. I think the hormones are a part of it too.<br />It is my favorite time of year and I spent it in bed sleeping.<br />Sucks ass. Do not worry. I will not let it get bad. I promise.<br />Let me wallow in my own self pity here on this Saturday night. I am 43 and in the house at 7pm on a Saturday. :(<br /><br />I knew you would understand. ThanksHeidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10723233261109297287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-544791998438248724.post-59945383748992031122012-03-17T17:22:20.072-04:002012-03-17T17:22:20.072-04:00Oh Heidi, you are in a depression spiral, for sure...Oh Heidi, you are in a depression spiral, for sure. You're not going to get any B.S. from me because I know exactly how you feel and it sucks so much ass. I think the slow, drudging, wearing away of life is worse sometimes than the chaos. I haven't had a haircut in a year because there's always something else that needs to be done and it seems almost sinful to spend money for something when there are so many other things to do. <br /><br />It's your blog and you don't owe anyone a happy story. You're sad and gloomy and the people who care about you will be here for you during this time and it will make the good times all the better. <br /><br />As you (and the rest of the world) know, I've had some shit going on in my own life lately and I found that just saying it all out makes it better. If you want to stew for a while then do that. Seethe at the unfairness of life if you want to. Then, only when you are ready, get up and dust yourself off and try it again from a different angle. Feel it all and keep on going. <br /><br />I love you and I'm sorry you're going through all of this. And it DOES suck. The slow, crushing, soul-draining depression over finances and life sucks balls. Don't feel guilty about hurting. <br /><br />The only other thing I want to add is this: Who decided that cooking and cleaning aren't important? 50 years ago what you are doing was so important it was considered odd to work. You are a wife and a mother. You create wonderful food and a clean home for your family. You drive them where they need to go and you listen when they need you. That's how your daughters will remember you when you're gone. If this is what you do and you're good at it then stop feeling like it's not enough. It's so much more than that.<br /><br />Hugs to you. I love you, Heidi.A-Granhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10865197359218326727noreply@blogger.com